Man Up Mutha Effa!!

This guy I am friends with is a married man who's wife runs his business ALL-THE-DAMN-TIME!! now we do not have the same circle of friends, nor do we socialize with the same group of people. But somehow we managed to stay good friends. anyway, his wife disclosed some WAY personal shyt to her "best friend" who in turn told her "good friend" who then tells me. Now, when I heard this information, damn straight I told him he needs to check his bitch because she got his biz all in the streets and that shit is in two words... NOT CUTE. Of course I didn't go into too many details I just told him his wife talks too f-ckin much and he needs to man up and chin check her @ss... okay not really chin check her (disclaimer: I in no way support a man hitting a woman but the severity of the information she leaked deserves at least a shake or two... HA! just kidding... well kind of). anyway I guess what I am irked about is that not only did he check his wife like he should, but everybody's name managed to get pulled into it. okay okay okay so maybe I should have let the shit ride but if it was me and one of my friends knew my significant other had me on BLAST on some SUPER PERSONAL SHIT (Like so personal I am not even going to disclose what it is even though I didn't mention any names and no one I know even knows about this blog) and didn't tell me, I would be hurt and angry. Not to mention that condsidering that we don't even really know the same circle of people, I should never be able to come back to him with his own personal business... I really don't care if the wife (we'll call her W.P. Clucker... the W.P. stands for the crazy wicked widow's peak she got going on and clucker stands for... well... her obvious extreme level of chickenheadness) has something to say to me because quite frankly, that is her husband and her loyalty needs to lie with him.... and I'll GLADLY tell her that. Her best friend is shady too because why are you telling information that was told to you in confidence to anyone anyway. I mean come on... this is not high school, at some point you need to be accountable and be a man/woman of your word. The way people are today really disturbs me. I'm trying not to judge anybody but this shyt is ri-damn-diculous. so to continue the story, the person who told me called me last night going off on me for telling dude (she didn't know when she was busy telling me his business that he and I are good friends) and what it really boils down to is I would never tell his business to anyone and all them bitches involved in this gossip circle need to learn a few lessons in all this... 1. You never know who knows who, 2. If someone who trusts you tells you something in confidence you need to respect that trust and not spread their business, 3. You can't trust everybody, 4. know who your friends are DUMMIES, and last but certainly not least,5. know when to shut da eff up... So I guess my question to all of you is was I wrong for telling dude what was going on???